People Skills

'A barrier to communication is something that keeps meaning from meeting'   Reuel Howe

The 12 barriers to communication 

Judging:

1 criticizing 
2 name calling
3 diagnosing 
4 praising evaluatively 

Sending Solutions:

5 ordering
6 threatening 
7 moralizing
8 excessive/inappropriate questioning

Avoiding the Other's Concern:

9 advising 
10 diverting 
11 logical argument
12 reassuring